Who has read The Sun Also Rises?
!Selling shit!
Hey everyone! So I think most of you know I’m going to Anime North, right?
I’m thinking of bringing a few unwanted figures and BL manga & see if anyone wants to buy them off me. Most of ‘em were impulse buys that I just don’t really like/care for, but they’re all in pretty good condition.
signal boost
big triumph for my state, i’m happy for it.
But my (white) mother is getting upset. She’s like “Why did they do that? They aren’t offending anyone! They’re using it as a…
It can turn into oppression. Especially if the hostility a lot of formerly oppressed groups have towards their former oppressors doesn’t die down.
Making fun of will turn into thinking lesser of will turn into something between thinking lesser of and oppression will turn into oppression
This post is dedicated to all male survivors of sexual assault. I know you’ve been faced with disbelief and cruelty, but I believe you and I support you. I know that this post doesn’t go into detail on female on male sexual assault, but I plan to make a separate…
I just learned the English word “pathos” today, but it doesn’t sound very sorrowful at all. It sounds like… currency.
That sadness will be 4 Pathos, please.
That sadness will be 4 Pathos, please.
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Ladies and gentlemen. My president is infinitely cooler than yours. And also nerdier. This is not a conflict.
omg
/dies
I knew I made the right choice.
OBAMA PLEASE USE YOUR PRESIDENTIAL POWERS TO REVIVE PHIL LIKE JESUS
omfg i love this man
Not that he hasn’t already misused his power as president. Nope. Not at all… >,>
seriously obama. you misuse your power as president daily.
Pm me examples of him misusing it por favor
Damage
This is not my usual post. But it’s something I had to share. As you read this, imagine how your reaction would differ if this story were being told by a woman, talking about how her husband treated her.
I have been separated from my wife for over a year, though we continue to share a house. We live on separate floors. We share the house because we need to parent our son together, and because we can’t afford to maintain two households.
I’d like to tell you a story, illustrating one reason why I am divorcing her. This is an example of the treatment I have received over the past fourteen years.
This evening, while she was drinking her wine, my estranged wife took exception to the fact that I wanted to talk about how tense she’s been. She said she didn’t want to talk about it.
I left the room (so as to comply with her request).
I went upstairs to use our tiny guest bathroom. She began to yell and throw things around the kitchen, then eventually charged up the stairs and into the bathroom, just as I was finishing and getting ready to leave. She confronted me there, holding her half-full wine glass in her hand. Her voice got louder, her gestures wilder.
She complained that I had upset her by wanting to talk when she had told me she didn’t want to talk. As I began to feel uncomfortable, I said, “You’re saying it’s my fault you can’t express your emotions responsibly like an adult?”
She said, “Yes!! It’s because you want to go off and take a vacation with your girlfriend!” Then she threw the contents of her glass in my face and smashed it against my bare chest.
The results are pictured here.
I stood there, with shattered glass at my feet, glass shards sticking in my skin, bleeding, for five minutes or so. I asked her to move so that I could leave. She waved the broken stem of the glass in the air and said, “Leave!! Who’s stopping you?”
I told her she was standing between me and the door. I felt threatened.
She laughed and said, “You’re 6 foot 3 and 250 pounds! You can’t feel threatened by me!”
I said, “You just broke a glass on my chest and cut me. You’re standing there with the stem in your hands. Yes. I feel threatened.
She said, “No, you don’t.”
I asked her to move out of the way and let me pass. I didn’t want her to think I was pushing her or threatening her.
She held her ground, waved the broken stem and shouted, “Go on! Leave! I’m not stopping you!”
After I asked her repeatedly, she finally moved a bit and I left, carefully stepping over the broken glass.
I have posted this here as evidence, and to help those who may think that size and gender make a difference when abuse is concerned. People who, like my estranged, think some have permission to feel threatened and some don’t.
Abusers come in all sizes and genders.
She and I went to a half dozen therapists over the years. At each initial session, every therapist took a look at me, then at her (5’4” 150 lbs.). Then he or she would gravely ask my wife, “Do you feel safe?”
None ever thought to ask me.
Thanks for listening.
Because this needs to be shared. Because abuse is wrong no matter what. Because this saddens my heart.
:(
honestly, fuck tumblr. if this was a woman this would be the only thing on my dash.
with that being said, fuck people who think that women are the only ones that can be abused in a relationship. and fuck crazy women, as well.
Fuck abuse. This should have the ten thousand notes that every women’s domestic abuse case has.
Regards,
IIF
I’m glad to see something like this on my dashboard finally. Not the fact that he got abused by his wife, but to show that not only women are victims of abuse (like so many women claim). It’s a shame that so many stupid people out there think -and defend- only women when it comes to abuse and not men.
ALL OF THIS
I don’t usually reblog this kind of thing… but the message here is just as important as this one mans personal tale.
Domestic abuse is not just male-on-female. It can happen just as easily the other way around, and the sad part is that men get almost NO support for it, and often feel scared or embarrassed to speak out about it.
As women, we have fought for equality, and in some places, we still are… but equality works both ways. If a man has no right to physically, mentally and verbally abuse a woman, the women similarly have no right to do that to a man.
Keep this in mind if you know anyone stuck in a tough or rocky relationship: the man might be just as scared and at risk as the woman.
ALERT THE INTERNET.
ALEX MADDEN MUST BE STOPPED.
RAPING, KILLING, AND MILITARIZING ABDUCTED BLOGS FOR THE LULZ IS EVIL.
MAKE ALEX MADDEN FAMOUS.
COVER THE NIGHT.
Someone explain this to me
How the FUCK is there only one signature?!The article is here. Sign the petition here.
Don’t Expel Bullied Gay Teen!
Darnell “Dynasty” Young has been bullied for months — it has sometimes gotten so bad that he has thought about suicide.
His mother contacted the school but instead of taking appropriate action, asked Darnell to “tone down” his accessories. That is victim blaming.
Not knowing what to do, his mother sent him to school with a stun gun because he didn’t feel safe. On April 16, 6 students surrounded him threatening violence. He pulled out the stun gun and raised it in the air, setting off an electric charge. He did not use it on anyone — he simply scared them away, protecting himself.
Young was soon arrested and taken away in handcuffs. He is now facing expulsion from the school.
Please tell Arsenal Technical High School to not expel Young — who hurt no one and was just trying to protect himself — and to change their school’s bullying policy to offer more protection for LGBT youth. No one should feel unsafe at school!
— Brittany
Please re-blog and actually sign it. There is an option for your name NOT to be displayed online so, your safety is not an issue :) Petitions like this can in fact change the usual course of action…
Edit: For up to 500 reblogs there are only 43 signatures. What the fuck?? Guys start signing instead of just reblogging.
I was signature #68… there needs to be more people signing!
